Thursday, April 23, 2009

Quick update

After much prayer and consideration, Jim and I both feel that hospice is the best option for him now. Its a good program. We will have a nurse come in twice a week to check on Jim, take his vitals, and she orders all his medications. There is also a nurse on call 24/7 if we ever need a nurse in an emergency situation. We can have an aid come in if needed to help with any additional needs we may have. They will even come and stay with Jim if I need to run errands or need a break, so that he won't be alone. They will also provide any medical equipment, such as a hospital bed or shower stool, if we have need of that. They have social workers who will help with bereavement, funeral arrangements, emotional support or whatever else you need. It is a service designed to make the last several months of a persons life easier in whatever way they can. Our Relief Society President is the nurse who will be caring for Jim, and she is a wonderful, loving person. We are grateful to have her.

Jim has a few things that he would really like to do, and the first is to travel to SLC to spend time with family and friends there. We are driving to SLC on Friday, and will be there until next Wed. We would love to see anyone who has a chance to visit with Jim. (Jim lost his cell phone, so please call mine.. 801-201-0935 if you need to make arrangements.)

He also would like to visit Rapid City one more time, so we are trying to arrange to go there towards the end of May. We'll keep you updated on that.

This is a difficult time, but we feel the sweet peace of the spirit in our home. We know that God is mindful of us, and that His plan is being fulfilled. Thanks again for all your prayers, love and support.

4 comments:

John said...

We look forward to seeing you in Salt Lake! Love and pray for you.

Anonymous said...

jim- just wanted to send my love and let you know i think of you often. josh and i pray for you and your family.

have a safe drive to salt lake.

love, megan

Myrna said...

Julie--thank you for the update. I would love to come and visit with you and with Jim while you are here. I will just bawl the entire time, so if you think you can handle that, I'd love to meet us with you.

My thoughts are with your family, and with Jim.

Anderson said...

Jim & Julie,
We hope that when you come to Rapid you will stay with us. If we can make any arrangements on our end just let us know. We pray for you and your family daily. Hugs, the Andersons